Self-Mastery Advocates: Vol. 2 - Dr. Jordan B. Peterson

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Self-mastery is a journey of becoming our highest version, incorporating what we learn from books, research materials, and daily life experiences. Check out Vol. 1 in the previous post before reading Vol. 2. Below are two more books from the phenomenal Dr. Jordan B. Peterson.

12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos


"12 Rules for Life" is a self-help book that offers practical advice for living a more meaningful and fulfilling life. It is based on Peterson's years of experience as a clinical psychologist and draws on a wide range of sources, including psychology, philosophy, and religious texts as well.


The book is organized around 12 "rules" that are designed to help readers find meaning and purpose in their lives and navigate the challenges and complexities of modern life. These rules include:


1. Stand up straight with your shoulders back: This rule is about physical posture and the importance of holding yourself with confidence and pride. By standing up straight, you communicate to others and to yourself that you are capable and worthy.


2. Treat yourself like you would someone you are responsible for helping: This rule is about self-care and treating yourself with kindness and compassion. It is important to be your own best friend and to take care of your own needs so that you can be there for others.


3. Make at least one thing better every single place you go: This rule is about taking action to improve the world around you, no matter how small the task. By making an effort to contribute positively to your environment, you can have a positive impact on others and make the world a better place.


4. Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient): This rule is about focusing on what truly matters to you, rather than just going through the motions or doing what is convenient. It is important to find and pursue your passions in life, rather than just doing what is expected of you.


5. Tell the truth, or at least, don't lie: This rule is about the importance of honesty and integrity. Lying undermines trust and relationships, and it is important to be truthful to build healthy connections with others.


6. Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't: This rule is about the importance of being open-minded and receptive to new ideas. By assuming that others might have something to teach you, you can learn and grow from their perspectives and experiences.



7. Try to make one room in your house as beautiful as possible: This rule is about creating a sense of order and beauty in your environment. By taking the time to create a visually pleasing space, you can improve your mood and sense of well-being.


8. Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street: This rule is about being kind and compassionate to animals, and about the positive impact that interacting with pets can have on our emotional well-being.


9. Do not bother children when they are skateboarding: This rule is about respecting the independence and autonomy of others, and about giving people space to pursue their interests and hobbies.


10. Pay attention to the best within yourself: This rule is about cultivating self-awareness and self-improvement. It is important to recognize and build on your strengths, rather than focusing solely on your weaknesses.


11. Compare yourself with who you were yesterday, not with who someone else is today: This rule is about being self-compassionate and avoiding comparison with others. It is important to focus on your own personal growth and progress, rather than constantly comparing yourself to others.


12. Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient: This rule is a repetition of rule 4, emphasizing the importance of finding and pursuing what is meaningful to you in life, rather than just doing what is easy or convenient.



Overall, both "Maps of Meaning" and "12 Rules for Life" are thought-provoking and engaging books that offer insights and practical advice on how to live a more meaningful and fulfilling life. They are well-written and well-researched and provide a wealth of ideas and insights that readers can use to improve their own lives and the world around them.


Dr. Jordan Peterson is a clinical psychologist, professor, and best-selling author who has published many books on topics such as psychology, personal development, and cultural criticism. His last book "Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life" was published in March 2021 and is a follow-up to his previous book, "12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos," which was published in 2018.


In "Beyond Order," Peterson expands on the themes and ideas introduced in his earlier book and offers additional insights and guidance on how to live a fulfilling and meaningful life.


The book is organized around 12 more rules for life, each of which is accompanied by a detailed explanation and examples from Peterson's own life and research. Some of the key themes and ideas discussed in the book include the importance of personal responsibility, the value of hard work and discipline, and the need to embrace change and uncertainty.



One of the main ideas in "Beyond Order" is that our modern society is characterized by a lack of order and meaning and that we need to take personal responsibility for creating order in our own lives. This involves setting goals, developing skills and knowledge, and engaging in meaningful work and relationships.


Another key theme in the book is the importance of discipline and hard work. Peterson argues that discipline is essential for achieving success in any area of life and that it requires a willingness to put in the time and effort necessary to learn and improve. He also emphasizes the need to embrace challenges and setbacks as opportunities for growth and development.


In addition to discussing these and other ideas, "Beyond Order" includes practical advice on topics such as how to set and pursue goals, how to develop healthy habits and routines, and how to build strong relationships.


Overall, both "Beyond Order" and "Twelve Rules for Life" offer valuable insights and guidance on how to live a fulfilling and meaningful life. They emphasize the importance of personal responsibility, hard work, and the need to embrace challenges and adversity as opportunities for growth and development. Find more content for Dr. Jordan Peterson on YouTube. Keep going.

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